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Well! Everyone desires to have a fulfilling life with a right balance of prosperity, friends, well-wishers, love, affection, emotions and luxuries. A perfect life is a dream of every human. However, a perfect life is not accomplished due to luck but due to our attitude towards our life. Yes, for an impeccable life, we should try developing into a flawless person. Dear readers; becoming flawless is not a rocket science. It is very easy. All we have to do is that, we need to embrace a simple lifestyle and be motivated to achieve our goals. To ensure a fulfilling life, you can follow these simple steps and I bet success will be all yours.

 

  • Embrace Punctuality

Punctuality is an important aspect towards a disciplined life and discipline is essential for a human. As a plant require water for its growth and development similarly, a discipline is essential for a human being to evolve. We must be determined to complete our work on time with requisite amount of efforts into it. This ensures the timely completion of our and increases our potential to reach our destination.

  • Get Serious Towards Life

Seriousness is the key for a successful professional and personal life. If we are not serious in our profession, we tend to lose our interest and ultimately, our unique talent gets devastated. Similarly, if we are not serious towards our personal lives, we tend to lose the affectionate bond in the relationship. Apart from this, seriousness towards life increases the mutual respect amongst us and the people in our social circle.

  • Prioritize Your Goals

We all have tendency to dream which is essentially good for our survival but most of the times we don’t set the short-term goals to achieve our ambition. Most of the times, if our short-term goals are designated, we tend to distract ourselves in short-lived pleasures thus, leaving our goals behind. Thus, it is extremely necessary to prioritize our goals over the distractions thereby, conquering our destination slowly but steadily.

  • Work Consistently

Perseverance is extremely necessary for achieving the goals. One should work slowly and calmly thus, attaining perfection in every step of life. As adequate consistency of ingredients is required for a perfect dish similarly, requisite amount of consistent efforts are vital for the attainment of the goals thereby, fulfilling the ultimate ambition of our life.

  • Enhance Your Sphere of Knowledge

In case you dream to stand-out amongst your counterparts, you should develop and enhance your own unique potential. This can be done by increasing your sphere of knowledge. Reading books or articles based upon the niches that interest you, watching videos that improves your thinking process, and healthy interaction with the people surrounding you will help you increase your sphere of your knowledge thereby, building up your confidence.

  • Work Hard to Fulfill Your Expectations

It is human tendency to have expectations towards life which are necessary to help the individual achieve stability in the life hereby, leading to the stage where goals and desires are attained. However, in the case we expect from our lives but are not willing to give 100% to achieve those expectations, we won’t get anything accept disappointment which would demoralize us thus, in order to keep our spirits high we must give in tremendous amount of efforts to achieve our expectations.

  • Believe in Yourself

You must believe in yourself, your soul and your instinct. The strong belief of yours towards your own personality will increase your confidence and give you stamina to face the challenges of your life. Thus, you will emerge out of your problems and evolve into a better person.

  • Attain Satisfaction

Satisfaction at the end of the day is extremely essential for rightful living. We must be satisfied in our achievements but we should have scope of improvement in our lives. This thought of ours will prevent our greed overpower our generosity and ultimately, we will have a righteous and guilt-free life.

These eight points have emerged as the secrets of a successful life since ages or rather, a perfect life because these steps help the individual evolve into a better person. The individuals following these rules tend to have a broad-minded thought-process and they tend to analyze very moment of their lives appropriately. One must realize that life tend to impart knowledge along with experiences thus, we need to have a thoughtful outlook towards life. We must have tendency to emerge out of our problems thus, evolving into a sophisticated individual. Once this motive is accomplished, our messy life turns into a blissful one and we tend to enjoy our fulfilling life.

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Once upon a time, there lived a King who, despite his luxurious lifestyle, was not happy at all.
One day, the King came upon a servant who was singing happily while he worked. This fascinated the King; Why was he, the Supreme Ruler of the Land, unhappy and gloomy, while a lowly servant had so much joy?

The King asked the servant, ‘Why are you so happy?’

The man replied, ‘Your Majesty, I am nothing but a servant, but my family and I don’t need too much – just a roof over our heads and warm food to fill our tummies.’

The king sought the advice of his most trusted advisor. After hearing the story, the advisor said, ‘Your Majesty, the servant has not yet joined “The 99 Club”.’

‘The 99 Club? And what is that?’ the King inquired.

The advisor replied, ‘To truly know what The 99 Club is, just place 99 Gold coins in a bag and leave it at this servant’s doorstep.’

When the servant saw the bag, he let out a great shout of joy… so many gold coins. He began to count them. After several counts, he was at last convinced that there were only 99 coins.

He wondered, ‘What could’ve happened to that last gold coin? Surely, no one would leave 99 coins!’

He looked everywhere, but that final coin was elusive. Finally he decided that he was going to work harder than ever to earn that 100th gold coin.

From that day, the servant was a changed man. He was overworked, grumpy, and blamed his family for not helping him make that 100th gold coin.

And he had stopped singing while he worked.

Witnessing this drastic transformation, the King was puzzled. The advisor said, ‘Your Majesty, the servant has now officially joined The 99 Club.’
He continued, ‘The 99 Club is a name given to those people who have enough to be happy but are never content, because they’re always wanting that extra 1, saying to themselves:
“Let me get that one final thing and then I will be happy for life.”

We can be happy with very little in our lives, but the minute we’re given something bigger and better, we want more …and even more! We lose our sleep, our happiness, as the price for our growing needs and desires.

That’s “The 99 Club”…
Zero Membership fee to enter, but you pay for it with your entire life!

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Recently three incidents which have shaken us and has made us to rethink as to where the society and we are moving –

1. Man who was owner of 12000 crores empire, Mr.Raymond is now living in a rented room on hand to mouth existence basis because his son has showed him the exit door of the house.

2. Billionaire woman died in her posh flat in Mumbai, her body turned to skeleton in one year and her millionaire son was not even bothered to know about her in the last 1 year.

3. An IAS officer topper of 2012 batch committed suicide because he was unable to cope up stress due to his family issues.

All these incidents tell us that money and power/reputation are not the only things which make us feel complete. Unless and until we are not happy with, what we have in our life…

We should not chase happiness.
We should lead a contented life with whatever we have in our life & family, we all should be thankful to God and enjoy what we have.