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Whatever is happening and happened in Banaras Hindu University makes us hang our heads in shame. Can’ t believe that in a vibrant democracy a vice chancellor can be so autocratic, authoritarian, anti student,dictatorial,inhuman and harsh that in an University founded by late Madan Mohan Malviya the students community, particularly the girls are ordered to be physically thrashed and tortured thus throwing all the university and constitutional norms and decency to winds. Shame. Jere is a whatsapp message send on Press club of India’s whatsapp account for your kind perusal.
ताज़ा हाल
पत्रकार Siddhant Mohan BHU से :
“आज रविवार के दिन बीएचयू में कर्फ्यू की स्थिति बनी हुई है. मैं तीन-चार लाठियां खाने के बाद थोड़ी दूरी पर बैठा हुआ हूं. सुना है कि अमर उजाला का कोई फोटोग्राफर भी लाठियां खाकर बैठा है. यह मीडिया पर भी हमला है, लेकिन मैं उन लड़कियों के लिए चिंतित हूं जो कल रात से लगातार फोन कर रही हैं.
लड़कियों के हॉस्टल के गेट बाहर से बंद कर दिए गए हैं. कल रात की पिटाई में पुलिस ने छात्राओं के साथ-साथ किसी-किसी वार्डेन को भी पीट दिया. अब लड़कियों को कहा जा रहा है कि जिसको भी दुर्गापूजा की छुट्टी के लिए घर जाना है, आज ही निकल जाओ.
ऐसे में कुछ लड़कियों-लड़कों ने हिम्मत की है निकलने की तो कैम्पस में मौजूद सीआरपीएफ और पीएसी के जवान पीटने लग रहे हैं. स्थिति गंभीर है. बीएचयू का आधिकारिक बयान कह रहा है कि “राष्ट्रविरोधी ताकतें राजनीति कर रही हैं”. शायद बलात्कार और यौन शोषण का विरोध करना राष्ट्रविरोध राजनीति है, ऐसा मुझे हाल के दिनों में पता चला है.
बहुत सारे लोग बाहर से जुट रहे हैं. बहुत सारे लोग अंदर जुटना चाह रहे हैं तो कुलपति त्रिपाठी उन्हें पिटवा दे रहा है. कल रात का मुझसे किया गया वादा कि “भईया, हम लोग सुबह फिर से गेट पर बैठेंगे”, धीरे-धीरे टूट रहा है. अब एक नया संकल्प है कि छुट्टी के बाद फिर से आंदोलन करेंगे. हो सकता है कि ऐसा कुछ हो. लेकिन ऐसा नहीं भी हो सकता है. तीन अक्टूबर तक बहुत कुछ बदल जाएगा.
अपनी बेटियों, पत्नियों, प्रेमिकाओं से कहिए ज़रूर कि लड़कियां लड़ रही हैं. मैं भी कह ही रहा हूं. मैंने लिखने वाली नौकरी पकड़ी है, लेकिन इतना तो भीतर बचा है कि कभी भी इन लड़कियों के लिए खड़ा हुआ जाए. इस वादे पर नहीं टिका तो घंटा जिएंगे?
इस कैम्पस के अंदर की प्रगतिशील आत्माएं मर गयी हैं. कोई अध्यापक गेट तक नहीं आया. एक साथ बीस अध्यापक भी गेट पर आ गए होते तो ये लड़कियां उन्हें जीवन भर के लिए अपना शिक्षक मानतीं. इन अध्यापकों का विश्वविद्यालय प्रशासन और राष्ट्रीय स्वयंसेवक संघ भी कुछ न कर पाता.
ये एक बार और क्यों न लिखा जाए कि यहां कोई राजनीतिक दल या विचारधारा शामिल नहीं है. कई लोग जुट रहे हैं आज. कई लोगों को जुटना भी चाहिए. क्या होगा नहीं पता? लेकिन बदलाव लाने का एक तो उजाला अब दिखने लगा है.”


Are Women truly safe over here? What do you think? Eve-prodding, rapes, assaults and so forth. India has turned out to be a standout amongst the most hazardous countries where it is excessively troublesome for the Females, making it impossible to venture out of their homes even. None is sheltered here, not even at daytime and not even around evening time.

All things considered, this really ought to without a doubt be acknowledged that these days, Ghosts are not the ones which frequent individuals but rather the men are. Men who have wrong eyes on the young ladies are the cheapsters who are in charge of making the general public not qualified to be lived in. Security of young ladies is a noteworthy issue remaining in the brain of every single individual of our nation.

Why are just the young ladies being rebuked for the rape that has as of late happened on them? Are the young ladies truly in charge of this? Try not to wear short garments, don’t venture out of your home during the evening, and don’t converse with this person and numerous other silly articulations. It is not the females who need to change but rather these are the men who need to change the way they see a young lady. It is the not the ladies who need to cover their body from making a beeline for toe yet the guys need to cover their eyes from the beginning until the end.

At any rate, ladies need to stand firm. Hush is the sole answer for this, raise your voice and represent your rights. All of you simply need to remember this, “Expectation generally advantageous yet simply be set up for the most noticeably awful that can happen whenever by any of the male guilty parties there in our general public keeping their eyes on you.”

What do you believe are the conceivable strides you can take for your security? The Delhi Commission for Women, Delhi is appropriate here for every one of the ladies confronting issues in any sense. Approach their helpline Number, disclose to them your issues they will be ideal here for you with an ideal arrangement in a matter of moments. Hello! Women, I have one more answer for you separated from the Government’s one and it is far too simple. Keep a Chili Pepper shower in your sack, at whatever point anybody tries to do anything hostile with you, this splash will come into the play. Utilize it and see the moment aftereffects of the disappointment of that individual before your eyes.

Indeed, cheers Girls! You simply should be as much certainty as you can be. No stresses. Do whatever you feel like, nobody can stop you. Simply know how to battle with anything that comes to your direction. Believe me, you will see the difference.


We can never understand girly things

The biggest problem is we can never understand girly things and understanding them is like facing big trouble. We can never be a part of girly talks, because they are not to be meant for us. We like playing cricket rather than playing with Barbie dolls!


We have more ‘Guyfriends’ than ‘Girlfriends’

Having guyfriends is common for us and we are comfortable with that! KYUNKI NAJA NAJA MITRAA TU DUR… having girls as friends is bit difficult for us and if we somehow manage to adjust with a girl that is something shocking.


Makeup is a big no for us

We can never dress up like a girl or can never imagine ourself like Katrina or kareena. We have only one attitude and that is “SWAG SADA DESI”. Putting a kajal is also a big achievement for us because the thing that we hate the most is makeup and having a mirror and lipstick in our hand everytime! And the thing that really makes us happy is that we don’t take hours to get ready.


Our parents always scold us to behave like a girl

It is somehow irritating for us to hear everytime to behave like a girl. The moment we behave little bit abnormal we come to hear various things from people around us like “LADKIO KI TARAH KYU NAI HARKATE KARTI?” “KOI LADKA NAHI PASAND KAREGA TUJE AGAR APNI HARKATE NAHI SUDHARI TUNE”!


We prefer T-shirts over tops

T-SHIRTS are the thing we feel really comfortable in. We can never manage to dress up in girly tops. And the funniest thing we face every time is when we go shopping  we like the clothes in the men’s section, because  that girly clothes give us goosebumps!


No matter what are shoes and dress are they are always a perfect match

Our love for sneakers is never ending… we cannot handle the trouble of buying matching footwear with our clothes because “HUMSE NA HOPAYEGA BETA”. This one thing always saves us from trouble because we don’t have to take time to decide what footwear we should wear. We never care to wear matching shoes and clothes.


And when we actually dress up we look like wow !

The moment we actually dress up like a girl no one can believe that it’s the same person. Our friends and family can’t get their eyes over us and that sudden change in us gives them a big shock KYUNKI UNKO ZOR KA JHATKA BHOT ZORO SE LAG GYA!



Well , this is an old tag for girls, but the truth is it suits best to them. Girls love gossips and in a girls college you will find girls gossiping in the canteen, college ground, college plaza and classrooms… the best thing about this is girls never get bored of it. They can instantly get gossip topics whether it is on teachers, “Canteen vale bhaiya” or reaction to an alien member.

Selfie is not just a word it’s an emotion for girls. Girls are ever ready to take out a picture in a class, canteen, washroom and even they like clicking pictures of their teachers too. You can find a girl in each corner of college clicking selfies and making pouts.

Well every class has a bookworm who is never ready to bunk lectures. When half of the girls are busy sipping coffee and gossiping these girls are busy attending the lectures. They can never afford to miss any class and for them ATTENDANCE is their lifeline. They are teacher’s favourite and always first benchers.

Well these girls are just like me the canteen lovers, who totally depend on canteen food. They party in the canteen, they play there, listen to music and make their “SPECIAL VALA ADDA”. They fight for ordering food because some die for Rajma Chawal and some for chowemin!!

There are so many girls who are looks conscious. They are arrogant too and some can never get over themselves. We can hear” awwww” repeatedly from them. Their moto is to be “Beauty with Brains” but they are actually “Beauty without Brains”!! Mostly these girls are busy discussing their clothes and shoes or combing and checking their hair after every lecture in the washroom.